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When I STOPPED being a SUPER MOM

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I transfer my energy from DOING everything for them...to...TRAIN them to do everything for themselves #1 it requires... ... greater energy ... greater patience ... greater understanding ... greater compassion ... greater perseverance ... greater love #2 i learn to... ... make friend with the mistakes ... make peace with the failure ... make a good term with laziness #3 my daily menu has changed it used to be physical activities then changing to emotional control and expectations management just like today... Calvin made a cup of hot chocolate then he just ignored the dirty table and continued to enjoy his drink this picture gives me 2 options: 1st. clean up everything this way used to be hard to deal! not until I have the 2nd option 2nd. train Calvin to clean it this means: apply the SOP... 1. calling him many times 2. showing - pointing - explaining his mistake 3. make him understand: that is his responsibility, not longer mine! 4. deal with his "anyhow" cleaning 5. make sur