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for my 11 years old boy

Calvin... If I would have to choose I would choose not to force you to wake up in the morning I choose to seeing you enjoy your sleep If I would have to choose I would choose not to force you to do your homework I would choose to see your happy face enjoy playing badminton if I would have to choose I would choose NOT to discipline you I would choose NOT to screaming-scolding-shouting at you for your mistake If I would have to choose I would choose NOT to HURT you with my fear If I would have to choose I would choose to forget about the school and all those marks If I would have to choose I would choose you enjoy the life in the way you like BUT Calvin The world is NOT operating in that way The world have its own system that we need to adjust to it Mommy...with all I have in me want you to be HAPPY Happy does not necessarily you are always in fun-good-wonderful situation Happy means your enjoy the good time  

the TRUE FREEDOM!

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#1 Calvin always run to this spot every time he got the chance and enjoy “the free phone” as much as he can #2 He always walks out from that place with happy face yesterday... i stopped him at this spot! we both facing the shop “Calvin can you imagine now...how it feels when daddy buy for you one of that phone?” after all these times... after saw all your friends having fun with it... after put your dream so long in the “dream box”... Finally... it is in your hands!  it is yours! Calvin: “WOW! Mommy!” I let his mind brings him to that happy moment I saw his genuine smile show up I know he is happy after a few minutes  “Calvin...the moment you bring the phone out from this phone...that's the moment you lose your FREEDOM” “you are happily and voluntarily exchange your freedom to that phone His face changed... He didn’t expect it... me: “Well...daddy and mommy have reserved your freedom up to this point... 11 years ... it might continue to 2-3 years...but it won’t be forever!