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Thursday, October 20, 2016

Ezekiel 36:25-29

My gracious Lord!!!

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Friday, October 14, 2016

They are Grown Up!

Calvin 9 
Rebecca 7

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Tuesday, October 11, 2016

New Wisdom . New Understanding

God send me to the world to reach out for the lost

NOT for me to change their life
BUT  to DO God's will

changing somebody's life is God's job! God's Part!
submit and obey God is my part

in the field...

i learn to be obedience
...that means fighting against my own comfort and self-righteousness

i learn to be humble
...that means fighting against my own pride

i learn to grow my perseverance
...stay! serve! love! even though everything else comes against me
...pain! struggle! hurt! won't stop me coz that's the way to learn: Jesus is enough for me

i learn to share God's love the impossible and undeserving people
...coz i'm the undeserving person who received God's grace freely

i learn to trust God the most impossible and difficult time

all these things mould me and shape me to be more like Jesus

...eventually the end of the day

it is my life that changed NOT anybody else

His grace changed my life in the field!
I need grace as much as the lost! or anybody else!
I need to preach gospel to myself more than anybody else

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Friday, June 10, 2016


Learn from Vincent Billy's case, I found a good article for parents

Vincent Billy was a bright and smart kid that committed suicide when he failed on his final project in university

by. Mrs Elly Risman
(Senior Psychologist and Consultant, University of Indonesia)

We never know...
what kind of the world that our children will face in the future, then teach and train them to solve their own problem now

Do not pray all roles for them...
. mother
. chef
. dishwasher

. father
. driver
. plumber

You are NOT a member of RESCUE TEAM!
Your children are not in danger
NO S.O.S signal
Do not always force yourselves to help and fix everything

#Children complain the toy puzzle cannot connected each other..."Let me help"
#The water bottle a little difficult to open "Come...Mommy do"
#Shoelace hard to tied "Here...Daddy tie for you"
#Oil sprinkled on that little hand "Come...Mommy wipe"

What will your children be?!

If help provided out of the storm
What happens when disaster really come?

Give the children opportunity to find their OWN solution before jump in and help them
#1 The ability to handle stress
#2 Solve the problem
#3 Find the Solution
...are the skilled that must be trained and learned by the children
...those skills are not just happened without any training

The ability to solve problems and survive in trouble times without giving up could have an impact for decades to come

Not only can make a person graduate from school
but also passed the test of the storm trough life and marriage

It is seems not important...
"what's wrong with helping my children?!"

If you immediately rush to save them from all the difficulties
They would become FRAGILE and WITHER

Hurt little bit, complain!
Fight a bit, as for a divorce!
Facing small problem, gone crazy!

IF you spend lots of time paying attention and money for their IQ
THEN put the same effort for their AQ

What is AQ?


According to Paul G. Stoltz
AQ is the intelligence in his face difficulties or obstacles and the ability to survive in a variety of life's difficulties and challenges experienced. 

Would this intelligence more important than IQ to face daily problems?

the feeling of being able to passed the test is a an incredible pleasure
being able to solve the problem, ranging from simple to difficult will give confident to the children and make them believe that asking for help is the last option when things really out of their hands


LET your children go through difficulties in life

NO problem if child suffered from minor cuts,
a little cry
a little disappointment
a little bit late
get wet by the rain

HOLD your tongue, hands and heart from providing assistance
Teach them to HANDLE the frustration

If you are always a fairy godmother or guardian angel.
What happens if you are no longer breath again tomorrow?

your kids may follow you to the grave

It is hard not to intervene when looking at your own child in pain, grief and struggle
Moreover as parent, the first instinct is to protect our children
So train the children's AQ is a test for parents as well

But...please understand...
Life is not easy, the problem will always be there and they must be able to survive
Many times we cannot avoid passing through the rain, storm and difficulties in life

Your action now gives them future!

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New in 2016

hope i will post more in here

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Monday, September 01, 2014

Rebecca grow in prayer

All of the other nights she pray only for herself

Today she pray...

"Lord...Thank you for abang, Daddy and Mommy...bless their all of their ways...bless Jesus name I pray. Amen!"


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Children and The Word of God

Children and the Word of God

while people around me talk about their kids goes to qualified school
while people around me talk about their kids perform well in the school
while people around me 'classified' the kids 

i lost interest in of all those things

i more concern about how they behave
i more concern about how they connect with people
i more concern about their happiness
i more concern about they knowing God

so i consider myself being faithfully planted the word of God to them

they love bedtime reading
which means i read for them 

i observe...
. that is our relax time
. the most effective learning time *i wonder*
. the precious time for us to talk heart to heart


i take advantage of it ---> planting God's word!

i can see...
. they are growing to relates everything that happen to the word of God
. they learn to know God's power manifested in His word
. they learn to know God

GOOD enough hah?!

until one day...
when i spend time with THE WRITER
Holy Spirit reveal the other side of GOOD!

He started with a question...
"what are you trying to do?!"

... what have i done?!

another question makes me more alert...
"what do u expect by planting the seed?!

...hmm...They know You?!

Yeah sort of! me to understand Lord *i beg*

then He help me to unpacked the truth

Planting the word of God is good!
Control the result is wrong!
your expectation makes you wants to control the result!

You were wondering...
The more you faithfully planting the seed
The more anxiety grows in you

because you are trying to control the result
because you are trying to play MY role

*crying remorsefully*

Rest in Me my daughter
It bring peace to you

I will do it according to My will
which is far beyond your mind can reach
There's not always good in your eyes

at that time...
I break down and cry and cry and cry
NO word came our my mouth
but i believe He understand my heart

that broken heart
that tears
that unspoken words

Into your hands i commit Calvin and Rebecca
May Your will be done in their life
not mine

it's always wonderful spend time with Him